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You Do Not Have To Journey Alone
Whether you’re a survivor, someone who loves a survivor, a therapist, a researcher, or someone who simply found something here that resonated—thank you for being here.
I read every message with care.
Please choose the path that best fits why you’re reaching out.
Before You Contact Me
You May Find What You Need Faster Here
Understand Incest Trauma
Explore articles, guides, and trauma education.
Begin Healing
Explore tools and resources.
Understand Someone You Love
Support for partners and loved ones.
Professional Learning
Resources for therapists and practitioners.
Reasons for Reaching Out
Personal Message
Questions, reflections, sharing how the work impacted you.
Expected response:
“Because Holey House is built by one person, responses may be limited.
Every message is still appreciated.”
Collaboration & Partnerships
Media, speaking, research, writing, ethical partnerships.
Include:
- Mission-aligned opportunities only
- Survivor-centered work preferred
- No cold marketing solicitations
Business & Website
Technical issues, broken links, accessibility concerns.
Media / Podcast Requests
Interviews, guest appearances, publication opportunities.
Professional Inquiry
Therapists, researchers, educators.
You’ve carried enough alone.
It’s time to understand what happened, and how it shaped the way you see yourself, love, and trust.
The Incest Trauma Healing Toolkit is a gentle, survivor-created guide that helps you make sense of your story, calm your nervous system, and begin rebuilding a relationship with yourself that feels safe again.
Whether you’re just realizing what you survived or years into your recovery, this toolkit gives you the language, framework, and guidance to start transforming pain into power.