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Family Systems & Collusion

Incest does not occur in isolation; it thrives in family environments that blur boundaries, shift roles, and protect perpetrators. This article explores enmeshment, parentification, triangulation, denial, implicit condoning, covert versus overt abuse, and collusive roles, revealing how families inadvertently or intentionally collude in abuse.