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Mechanisms of Entrapment & Control

Incest abuse is not random; it is orchestrated through grooming, desensitization, boundary erosion, and manipulation. This article dissects the tactics abusers use to entrap survivors and maintain silence, illuminating the methods that survivors internalize as “normal.”